LOL---very good description...actually I have a son-in-law like that....
I love my daughter very much..and am glad she is happy....but I take care of their daughter three days a week...and I have taken care of my other granddaughter since the day she was born 6 years ago....
Not to mention that I raised my daughter and my son...and both turned out pretty well...
BUT, BUT...every single time my son-in-law walks in a room, HE tries to tell ME how to raise children...and is an expert on everything that is discussed during family get-togethers...
Add about 25 years to him....O'Reilly without the money.
OMG .. Tab Hunter .. one of my teenage crushes .. is on Larry King .. first interview about life out of the closet (barf).. but he sure looks fine.
Sounds like you earned the right to show your "son-in-law" the door, ask him to not only leave, but take his mouth with him and don't come back until he has learn how to behave!
Oh, he'll be back after he has been made to believe your sick of his bullying and not to forget he is own probation or else out he goes again and hopefully for good!
Why should you be miserable in your own house, HUH?