DEAR CHOPPED LIVER,
Men crave to be needed, useful, and desired. Look in any organization or church where women are in charge and there will be a lack of men. especially in churches. You do not have to fiegn helplessness, but there needs to be an invitation and a place in your life that a man can be desired by you. If you have the attitude that " I don't need a man I can hire anything out I want" then you will be alone.
Unless of course you hit it off with the hired hand! :>)
Seriously I have no problem accepting help