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To: Seamoth
Would appreciate some advice on telling the difference between a guy not trying because he's wanting a green light and a guy not trying because he's blowing me off.

Be interested in something about him (it needs to be genuine interest -- if there's nothing about him that interests you, then why are you bothering?). Display that interest. Ask him questions (not nosy questions though).

If this draws him into conversation, then he was waiting for a green light. If he seems uninterested in talking to you, then move on

241 posted on 09/17/2005 8:48:54 AM PDT by SauronOfMordor (Never try to teach a pig to sing -- it wastes your time and it annoys the pig)
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To: SauronOfMordor

Much more eloquent than my answer.


243 posted on 09/17/2005 8:51:49 AM PDT by FOG724 (RINOS - they are not better than leftists, they ARE leftists.)
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To: Seamoth

I forgot to add: once you and he are comfortably talking, then you can mention that your weekend is free, and you're at a loss for what to do to spend your time. That's his gold-trimmed, hand-delivered invitation. He'll either suggest some mutual activity, or it's your signal to move on


250 posted on 09/17/2005 9:02:04 AM PDT by SauronOfMordor (Never try to teach a pig to sing -- it wastes your time and it annoys the pig)
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