[FOG724]

Are you married?

Married with two sons. I also have many male friends. I understand men and they respond to it. Men feel comfortable around me. I don't push female values on them. Men have their own way of looking at things. Learn that, don't try to change it and you will have no trouble attracting men.

Women are a man's strength. They always have been and they always will be. Women are the rocks upon which they build their lives. Don't demand they act like men but gently support them and they will rise to the occasion. Men love to please women but you must let them know what it is that pleases you. Don't assume he knows.

[apackof2]

Excellent advise

[Sisku Hanne]

Very well said! Perfection is relative. Finding the person who is the perfect compliment is a different journey for everyone. Just like two adjoining puzzle pieces, they can take on many different configurations and still be a perfect fit.
As another true (conservative) feminist, my mate had to be strong and masculine, exhibiting the best qualities that make men so utterly wonderful. Yet in private he is playfully schmoopy and adores me. I wouldn't trade that for any material treasure. I love him unreservedly..."imperfections" and all, and I show him that I value and respect him.

Had to get that out there before saying how any woman could resist having a bit of a crush on MadIvan for his silver pen, incomparable wit and obvious intelligence is beyond me ;-)!

[Army Air Corps]

Preach it, sistah!

[Utilizer]

You are the wind beneath My wings...