This bitter, sour, and egomaniacal woman sounds to me like one of the legions who get their ideas of what life should be like from movies, TV, and other imaginary vehicles. She needs to try real life. But that probably would clash with her preconceptions
I take a more holistic approach to the genus known as "bitter drunk chick." What they really need to do is just stay away from me. I've found that life is tough enough with some harpie screeching tales of woe in my ear...
Amen... as Louis Grizzard noted years ago: "My Dad fought the Nazis, the Italians, and the North Koreans, and he always said, 'Son, there's nothing meaner than a contentious woman...'"