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Never, Ever Leave home without It.
Real Life | 8/21/2005 | CholeraJoe

Posted on 08/21/2005 6:02:36 AM PDT by CholeraJoe

"Never, ever leave home without it." No, not your American Express card, your sidearm.

This morning, I woke up about 4:15 and was hungry, so I decided to drive to the local 24-hour beanery. The only other customers were a table of 10, intoxicated 20-somethings making alot of noise.

There were 7 muscular young men and three loud-mouthed young women. After listening to their raucous laughter for 10 minutes, I politely asked the waitress to ask them to hold down the noise. All I wanted to do was eat my breakfast in relative peace.

Her request for quiet lasted about 45 seconds, then the noise and laughter resumed. At that point, I decided to do something.

Bear in mind that I am not an imposing figure. I'm 5'9", mid 50's, and slim. I walked over to the table, and walked completely around it twice. I said, "I'd like y'all to hold down the noise for a while, please." One of the young men started to give me trash-talk but within seconds was elbowed by the guy next to him, who whispered something in his ear. Then everyone at the table said, "Yes, sir, or OK."

What made the difference? Open carry. I was wearing a 9mm semi-auto on my right hip. I never touched it and I made no threats, but it was nevertheless visible.


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To: Nathan Zachary
No, it isn't. the "Self defence" excuse is when you have no other choice.

Not in my state. Retreat is not a prerequisite to use of deadly force. Furthermore, use of deadly force is allowed by any citizen to prevent a crime.

121 posted on 08/21/2005 6:59:51 AM PDT by CholeraJoe ("Cowboy the f*ck up!" LT Waters in "Tears of the Sun")
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To: CholeraJoe; kendu
nothing like fresh "STFU" for breakfast

And a nice big cup of at that!

Good work, Joe!

122 posted on 08/21/2005 7:01:12 AM PDT by DTogo (U.S. out of the U.N. & U.N out of the U.S.)
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To: CholeraJoe

On second thought I'm not sure that walking around the table twice was prudent or necessary. Simply speaking in a firm, clear voice should be enough.

I think you were right to ask them to quiet down though.
No need to involve the manager.


123 posted on 08/21/2005 7:01:13 AM PDT by nerdwithamachinegun (All generalizations are wrong.)
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To: Kenny Bunk
Eat that meal in the prone with your kevlar on, buddy up! One eats, the other pulls security.
124 posted on 08/21/2005 7:01:16 AM PDT by corlorde (New Hampshire)
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To: cbkaty

If it's in the eatery's advantage to accommodate the loud customers rather than the quiet ones when the two can't get along, you'd be a fool to expect them to welcome the latter.


125 posted on 08/21/2005 7:01:19 AM PDT by The Red Zone (Florida, the sun-shame state, and Illinois the chicken injun.)
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To: xcamel
Switzerland is one of the most polite countries on the planet

So what are you saying? Guns are for insuring politeness? Guns have a magical property of making people polite? The Swiss have nothing to do with being polite?

126 posted on 08/21/2005 7:01:43 AM PDT by jwh_Denver (The government said it? I believe it! Hehe hoho haha!)
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To: lemura

You're right about the possible intimidation.


127 posted on 08/21/2005 7:02:14 AM PDT by nerdwithamachinegun (All generalizations are wrong.)
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To: cbkaty

Common sense.

Ask any police officer if he would walk around a table full of drunk Crips or Bloods with a holstered gun.

Do you think a fifty something’s reflexes are as good as a twenty year olds?

You do realize that at every second of his little jaunt his back had to be exposed to one of them.

Do you think members of MS-13 would have warned him before plunging a knife in his back and give him a chance to draw first?

Training is not a substitute for brains. Like I said, even a trained police officer would not have done what he did had they been suspected gang members.


128 posted on 08/21/2005 7:02:21 AM PDT by Jacvin
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To: MeneMeneTekelUpharsin
I am sick and tired of individuals believing they have a right to make life miserable for everyone around them. We seem to have lost all sense of control and decency. The world does not revolve around just YOU.

You’re right. I am sick and tired of individuals believing they have a right to make life miserable for everyone around them. I have been in dinners at 4 AM with friends after a night out, and yes – there were times we got a bit loud. If a staff member had asked us to keep it down we would have. If one customer had entered and demanded we act as he demanded we would have been just a bit more than annoyed. What right does he have to ruin our enjoyment and make our life at that moment more miserable?
129 posted on 08/21/2005 7:02:34 AM PDT by R. Scott (Humanity i love you because when you're hard up you pawn your Intelligence to buy a drink.)
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To: Kenny Bunk

LOL!


130 posted on 08/21/2005 7:02:38 AM PDT by CholeraJoe ("Cowboy the f*ck up!" LT Waters in "Tears of the Sun")
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To: cbkaty
The restaurant is private property, and it's the owner's place to tell 'em that. As another poster noted, confrontations over petty matters like these reinforce the negative perceptions of guns and gun owners.

Can you give that some thought?

131 posted on 08/21/2005 7:02:40 AM PDT by OKSooner
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To: CholeraJoe

But how does the fact that you took the first escalating move figure in that calculus?


132 posted on 08/21/2005 7:02:41 AM PDT by The Red Zone (Florida, the sun-shame state, and Illinois the chicken injun.)
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To: The Red Zone

WalMart opens at 5am.


133 posted on 08/21/2005 7:03:14 AM PDT by CholeraJoe ("Cowboy the f*ck up!" LT Waters in "Tears of the Sun")
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To: CholeraJoe
I would have asked the manager to call the police.

And 'what if' the manager had been a burly 6'10" packing a .357 on his hip and had told you that you needed to hit the road...

134 posted on 08/21/2005 7:05:27 AM PDT by elli1
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To: The Red Zone

That's exactly what the jury would think too. Claiming self defence would be a tuff defence when you had other options.
I doubt a jury would buy it.


135 posted on 08/21/2005 7:05:53 AM PDT by Nathan Zachary
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To: CholeraJoe

Walmart schmalmart, think something like a Safeway or even a White Hen.


136 posted on 08/21/2005 7:05:55 AM PDT by The Red Zone (Florida, the sun-shame state, and Illinois the chicken injun.)
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To: Ace the Biker
You remind me of those "garratroopers" in Viet Nam …

I ran into a high school classmate at Tan Son Nhut airport in Saigon in 1967. He was wearing tiger stripes, boonie hat, M-16, 45 in a shoulder rig and a .38 on his hip. He had at least a hundred rounds on him. I asked what his job was – turned out he was a US Air Force mail clerk and never left the airbase.
137 posted on 08/21/2005 7:06:44 AM PDT by R. Scott (Humanity i love you because when you're hard up you pawn your Intelligence to buy a drink.)
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To: The Red Zone
If it's in the eatery's advantage to accommodate the loud customers rather than the quiet ones when the two can't get along, you'd be a fool to expect them to welcome the latter

I do not disagree....but the eatery should have told the quiet one to leave....if he didn't want the noise....and not charged him for the meal. Make it clear at the door that noisy obnoxious customers are tollerated...in fact welcomed...and that customers expecting a quiet peaceful meal need not enter.

138 posted on 08/21/2005 7:06:46 AM PDT by cbkaty (I may not always post...but I am always here......)
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To: OKSooner
The restaurant is private property,

Er, um. I think case law and the US Civil Rights code would state that any establishment open to the public is not private property.

139 posted on 08/21/2005 7:07:17 AM PDT by CholeraJoe ("Cowboy the f*ck up!" LT Waters in "Tears of the Sun")
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To: patton

"What you did was wrong. - A bunch of drunk kids? - Leave them alone"

What he did is probably help them learn a lesson on civility.

If you are NOT civil, you may have to pay the consequences. I will guarantee the next time these punks were out they will think twice before acting like a bunch of boors.

Maybe they will all meet in your front yard, then you can enjoy all their crap all by yourself. Your neighbors may have a different opinion.


140 posted on 08/21/2005 7:07:29 AM PDT by hombre_sincero
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