I wouldn't judge her if she were just 'unhinged.' But she is an anti-American leftist first and foremost, and what she is doing will bring harm to our troops, and for that she deserves condemnation.
The 'unhinged' part may well be an act for all we know. Normal grief does not act itself out in such a manner.
I agree.
If Bush agreed to meet with her, she'd probably complain that he was stalking her.