My hat is off to you. I appreciate your honesty. I decided to read all the post before I replied. I am glad I did.
Bastard - The illegitimate offspring of unmarried parents. That is not very PC is it. What else could you call them. Any wife that would have another mans child is nothing but trash. They do not have honor, dignity, morality, or decency. She should have the decency and honor to tell her husband and let him decide what to do.
We already know what the biological father and mother of this love child are. Maybe they should be chained together for a while.
"Love-child." ;^)