You live in the sticks, I live in the big city. It's been in my face 24/7 in the dating world for two decades. One has to be naive or blind not to see it. There are diamonds in the rough, but they are rare. Beyond dating, I've seen more than a dozen marriages fail due to women changing. They become condescending, unsupportive, intolerable beeatches who gain 30-50% bodyweight within a few years. The men go years without sex. When you see family members and best friends lives destroyed by predatory females, you develop an educated opinion firsthand, something you obviously have never seen. No big deal, you've witnessed plenty of things that I haven't. It's a big planet.
In my world, I see pretty women on the arms on all kinds of guys. The mechanic I use is married to a knockout, the bike mechanic I use has a knockout girlfriend.
Like most of my best friends, I've experienced that my entire life, whether I was making 6 figures or unemployed. I had a girlfriend of 2 years who turned down Playboy. Any man with player skills, a sense of humor and some looks is surrounded by women, regardless of money. These are all things a man can perfect, if he puts an effort into it.
I don't see what you see at all.
Very true, so don't pre-judge what you have not witnessed. Like they say, before you pre-judge a man, walk a few miles in his shoes. That way, if he gets pissed off, you miles away and you've got his shoes.
The way you tell it, only the "successful" have a chance in the dating market.
Nonsense. Looks, youth and charm will get you in most any woman's door. As for longevity, no money no honey. They sell their goods to the highest bidder in the long run. Where I live the good looking women ALL date 3-5 guys at a time. I'm platonic friends with many great looking US women, it's no big deal for them to discuss it. They brag bout the ever changing fleet of men, it's a source of humor. The older affluent men take them to dinner and events, but it's Biff the janitor on the side who gets the goods. He gets replaced on a weekly basis.
If you've read my previous posts, I caught on to the games early, and have only dated Latinas for 14 years now. Lots of them. They're all women, none of this dishonest, selfish feminist attitude. If they start to americanize, I move on.
Dallas is the sticks? We're the 8th largest city in the United States, which is in itself deceptive as we're the 5th largest metro-area in the USA behind only New York, L.A., Chicago, and Philly. I hardly live in the sticks.
Beyond dating, I've seen more than a dozen marriages fail due to women changing
I've noticed that it's always the women who're screwing things up in your post. I think even the most casual contemplation of relationships would yield a red flag over this one.
Like most of my best friends, I've experienced that my entire life, whether I was making 6 figures or unemployed. I had a girlfriend of 2 years who turned down Playboy. Any man with player skills, a sense of humor and some looks is surrounded by women, regardless of money. These are all things a man can perfect, if he puts an effort into it.
Curiouser and Curiouser. If everyone you know is so good with women, why are you witnessing so many relationship woes? The ideas here aren't jiving. Unless of course it has something to with the whole "player" mentality as indicated by your use of the phrase "player skills" isn't condusive to long term relationships? Maybe, just maybe, you're watching all of your friends' relationships fail because they aren't particularly good at maintaining long term relationships themselves? Maybe just maybe, they're responsible for 50% or more of these relationship woes?
Nonsense. Looks, youth and charm will get you in most any woman's door. As for longevity, no money no honey. They sell their goods to the highest bidder in the long run.
Utter Bravo Sierra. You're projecting. You in essence believe all women are whores, so you invent scenarios (like the one above) where all women are whores.
If you've read my previous posts, I caught on to the games early, and have only dated Latinas for 14 years now. Lots of them. They're all women, none of this dishonest, selfish feminist attitude. If they start to americanize, I move on.
Oh trust me, I've noticed that you're not in a real relationship, yet continue to dish out marital advice. That especially hasn't been lost on me at all. I've noticed from your posts, that despite your self-proclaimed trade up to Latinas, you've still yet to make a relationship work. Unfortunately, plenty of blind men without a clue have probably read the pablum and willing allowed their blind selves to be led by the blind.