Dallas is the sticks? We're the 8th largest city in the United States, which is in itself deceptive as we're the 5th largest metro-area in the USA behind only New York, L.A., Chicago, and Philly. I hardly live in the sticks.
Beyond dating, I've seen more than a dozen marriages fail due to women changing
I've noticed that it's always the women who're screwing things up in your post. I think even the most casual contemplation of relationships would yield a red flag over this one.
Like most of my best friends, I've experienced that my entire life, whether I was making 6 figures or unemployed. I had a girlfriend of 2 years who turned down Playboy. Any man with player skills, a sense of humor and some looks is surrounded by women, regardless of money. These are all things a man can perfect, if he puts an effort into it.
Curiouser and Curiouser. If everyone you know is so good with women, why are you witnessing so many relationship woes? The ideas here aren't jiving. Unless of course it has something to with the whole "player" mentality as indicated by your use of the phrase "player skills" isn't condusive to long term relationships? Maybe, just maybe, you're watching all of your friends' relationships fail because they aren't particularly good at maintaining long term relationships themselves? Maybe just maybe, they're responsible for 50% or more of these relationship woes?
Nonsense. Looks, youth and charm will get you in most any woman's door. As for longevity, no money no honey. They sell their goods to the highest bidder in the long run.
Utter Bravo Sierra. You're projecting. You in essence believe all women are whores, so you invent scenarios (like the one above) where all women are whores.
If you've read my previous posts, I caught on to the games early, and have only dated Latinas for 14 years now. Lots of them. They're all women, none of this dishonest, selfish feminist attitude. If they start to americanize, I move on.
Oh trust me, I've noticed that you're not in a real relationship, yet continue to dish out marital advice. That especially hasn't been lost on me at all. I've noticed from your posts, that despite your self-proclaimed trade up to Latinas, you've still yet to make a relationship work. Unfortunately, plenty of blind men without a clue have probably read the pablum and willing allowed their blind selves to be led by the blind.
Lots of whining on this thread too!
Glad I put on my flameproof suit first.
I'm happily single, and my best friends are as well. Four to six months a year I travel throughout CA and So. A fishing, golfing, windsurfing, exploring etc. The relationships I enjoy are exactly what I choose, and they're very healthy, warm, long distance, and part-time. I prefer the latin culture, their women, and their attitude towards men, and plan on moving down here. People's lives, preferences and views will often differ from your own. The fact you put them down, get defensive and make wild, false commentary should tell you alot you about yourself. Funny stuff.
When he's tired of the girl or she starts to talk about commitment, he moves on. From his point of view, that makes sense.
Men who want families, on the other hand, need the entire woman, and will make the necessary commitment. For us, that is what makes sense.
It's all about the old Spanish saying about life: Take what you want, and pay for it, says God