[Jersey Republican Biker Chick]

I think you should watch how you pass judgment on others. I think that because I am enlightened enough to know that I cannot make time that a child needs I am being totally unselfish by not having one.

The selfish people are the ones that have children to satisfy society's notion that they should; and then pass the child off for nannies etc. to raise. The child feels unloved and knows that it is unwanted. That is the worst thing you can do to a child. They pick up every undertone of resentment every time a parent cannot do what they really want to be doing!

[PayNoAttentionManBehindCurtain]

I'm not judging you. I don't know if you cannot make time for a child or won't make time for a child. I don't know anything about your circumstances.

Becky