I have known this young lady her entire life, I have no reason to disbelieve her. Have you researched the extent of unreported date rape? It is not uncommon for women to keep this a secret. Your insinuation that she is not a virgin is despicable at best; and even if she was not a virgin, this has nothing to do with whether or not she was raped.
If one airs his laundry on a public forum he should expect someone to ask how the stains got there.
NOBODY asked me to post this thread, I did it on my own accord. It is not my "laundry," it is me asking for prayers for a family friend. But I am interested, do you make a habit of asking people in other unpleasant circumstances "how the stains got there?" Do you tell lung cancer victims that they deserve to die because they smoked? And why is it that I should be questioned as to this young woman's morals? From reading everything you have written on this thread, I can only conclude that you have some deeply ingrained misogyny and you need to look at that.
Prayers and hugs for your friend and her precious baby.
Is that what this was, a date rape, did he drug her or get her drunk or did he physicaly restrain her. You say she knows him and can identify him. Does she wish to prosecute him and finaly did she confide in you to tell you this story or did you get it from her family members. Rape is a serious allegation either in legal allegations or passing conversation.I know if I was a woman and a man held me down and forced sex upon me and I knew the individual there would be no corner on earth or hell he could hide. By the way I have known all my adult children their entire life and I can still smell when something isn't quite right.I could be wrong about this, I really hope I am, I have just seen too much of it in this world. Oh and please define your interpretation of what a date rape is.