Is that what this was, a date rape, did he drug her or get her drunk or did he physicaly restrain her. You say she knows him and can identify him. Does she wish to prosecute him and finaly did she confide in you to tell you this story or did you get it from her family members. Rape is a serious allegation either in legal allegations or passing conversation.I know if I was a woman and a man held me down and forced sex upon me and I knew the individual there would be no corner on earth or hell he could hide. By the way I have known all my adult children their entire life and I can still smell when something isn't quite right.I could be wrong about this, I really hope I am, I have just seen too much of it in this world. Oh and please define your interpretation of what a date rape is.