Posted on 06/02/2005 8:02:49 AM PDT by SamFromLivingston
When I was 17 I backpacked through Israel for three months by myself. You can't stop living life because of what MIGHT happen. Sorry.
There are blonde women in Aruba. If anything, these girls are targeted because they don't know the area and they're usually drunk to boot. Look at all the Girls Gone Wild videos. See any 'chaperones' around? Not.
I agree with you.
All of my,now adult, kids, did alot of travelling, both foreign and domestic, while in high school and college.
We knew that they were responsible and careful and we trusted their judgement. Their experiences were invaluable lessons and broadened their horizons.
As young marrieds they all still adore travel and do it as often as possible.
We went to Aruba on our honeymoon 36 years ago. There was virtually nothing there. We just went back last year and thoroughly enjoyed it. We were amazed at the growth. We felt much safer than we have in many other Carribbean Islands.
Sorry, but you are simply incorrect. Being careful doesn't amount to living in fear.
Except in very rare situations, a teenager leaving the country without at least one parent, older (and responsible) sibling, or other close family member or trusted responsible adult, is stupid. There's no other way to put it.
If there are very similar numbers of adults (and I mean over the age of, say, 25 or 30), then that might be one of those rare situations. Its one thing to go to Colorado, but another thing to leave the US.
Very true, but if it happened here, there would be news coverage, volunteers looking for her, massive search, real police work, etc.....in a 3rd world foreign country you will find none of this. I hope at least one teenage girl will hear about his story and make a better decision in her future. This girl did not deserve what ever happened to her and I pray she is found and brought safely home but it does not look good.
There is a lot more to this story that is not being told. I will not say anything more but it was brought up during prayer time last night. It is devastating!
I believe an 18y.o soldier is trained vs. an 18y.o student on a class trip.
She did not. From what we were told last night it is a terrible situation.
An eighteen year is an adult (most of the time). There are basic things I'm sure every parents says to a teen when travelling, don't take rides, don't drink out of someone's glass,etc.etc.
Since you chose to bring up that you are privvy to more information, I think you should share it. Why on Earth would you have brought it up if you didn't want to?
Hyperbole aside, runner-up for "Most stupid remark of the Day".
Hyperbole yes but not stupid. Living in fear is very cripping and prevents a person from experiencing God's best for their lives.
That may be, but since we aren't privy to those details, we have to operate with the information as presented above.
No one is saying live in fear. Good judgement needs to be applied though.
No one ever said differently.
Please reference that information, it is not included in the article. Thanks
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I went walking by myself in Paris which would have been no big deal but boy is that place desolate after eleven p.m. :( So yes when travelling a person should use judgment. I feel sorry for this family. I hope the girl is alive but she's probably not.
In all things, wouldn't you agree?
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