A few links if you are not on these ping lists:
Texkat's Special Memorial Day Thread at Operation Phantom Fury
HERE.
Bommer's Memorial Day tribute & videos
HERE
Mom update: On floor for hour.. took pills to curb pain to try to pull herself up into bed. arm, hip, knees incredible pain. she could not get into her bed & of course I could not lift her - She again said no to 911 call. (which I respect).. I made the executive decision to set up her up with a mattress on the floor. it was hard to get her in that. put a lamp, water, TV in range &her remote... Gave her some towels to potty in & said we would see how things go tomorrow.
I know I have no desire for my last breath to be in a hospital.. when my time is there.. let me die in the woods, lake, my own abode, whatever & wherever it is. I know mom feels the same way. I pray the Lord takes me before I reach that stage. I will not be a burden on others & will do what is necessary to make that happen .. but gee it would be nice if God helped a little there..
Well, need to try to sleep . It has been a very intense couple weeks.. Brother Duane & I are to clean & decorate graves tomorrow.. I take him to Akron airport Tues & I will take over "use" of his van, which is newer and in better shape than my current one. He is a good brother. I feel very blessed. I dearly love his wife.. such a gift she is to him.
Lori you have been on my mind these past few days..Letting you know you are in my thoughts & prayers