[Xenalyte]

You're sweet!

That was indeed me. I'm still pretty sure I'm unfit for motherhood, but since the potential exists, we had to cover it.

[Antoninus]

That was indeed me. I'm still pretty sure I'm unfit for motherhood, but since the potential exists, we had to cover it.

30 years from now when you're at your son's wedding, you'll probably laugh that you ever thought such a thing!

If you're a woman, you're fit for motherhood.

[Gabz]

When the "potential" arrives, you will do just fine, trust me - I've been there!!!!!!

[sfimom]

At the time I became pregnant with my first child I was 'unfit' as well. However I became 'fit' by the time she was born. this isn't the way of it for many but in my case at least knowing I was having a child motivated me to be the best parent I could possibly be. If/when you are blessed I wish you and your family all the best. You'd be amazed how much motherly instinct you have once you actually become a mother.