How come you never see any articles about what women should do to make men happy?
** If that's true then why is Cosmo an unofficial guide on how to do cowboys and give a guy oral? How many different ways can a woman do that?
Do you really want an answer to that, or is that a hypothetical? ;)
I think Dr. Laura's book about the proper caring and feeding for men was as about 100% accurate as you will ever get.
She caught a lot of flack for that book, but she was dead on 100%!
A man wants some appreciation, not constant bullshido about small frivolous insignificant things that turn otherwise nice moments into frustrations.
As far a sex goes, I can't think of one person I know who does not hear the same, repeatedly from their spouse or significant other:
1. I'm tiiirrreeedd. -
2. I'm depressed
3. I'm not in the mood.
4. I have a headache
When men see that these very same women are fully energized to go to the mall or to go visit some friend's kid or something, these bullshido things listed about are obviously not true. The men then internalizes these things in a very hurtful manner and see no upside to then always trying please the significant other. Ask any man to be hinest about this and he will tell you the same.
Here is my take on the following:
1. I'm tired - Honey, but you always seem so energized to
see your mother and go shopping.
2. I'm depressed - Honey just because you did not get a
Coach bag this week, get over it.
3. I'm not in the mood - To much to write.
4. I have a headache - see a doctor.