That's about cross-dressing. Close, but not quite.
So cross dressing was wrong but female homosexual behavior was acceptable under the law?
Deut 23:17. Sex outside of marriage is forbidden. So the "there shall be no whores and sodomites..." verse seems to cover it. There is another though. I'm sure I've seen it before.
Not really, you either misunderstand or are ignoring the nuances and context of Deut. against the subject of homosexuality. So you think Yahweh just had some fashion issues in ancient Israel? You think there were some cross dressing Marlyn Monroe make-up wearing types that needed to be addressed in the Bible?
Disguising or misrepresenting one's gender is a homosexual act in order to attract the opposite sex/gender, you ask your Rabbi if he thinks behaving like the opposite sex in Moses' day isn't specifically for homosexual attraction.
Unless of course you just want to believe the liberal spin for the day, that's your ignorance.