Joebuck,
You have proven me wrong. I would suggest everyone on this board immediately discuss this situation with their loved ones. Don't put it off another day. You certainly do not want to go through what the Schindlers and Schiavo's have been dealing with simply because the situation was not discussed fully. If necessary make a living will so that there is no confusion whatsoever.
What a gracious reply. Good for you, it's nice to see some civility on this board these days. I hope I haven't said anything rude to you.