Are you suggesting God is NOT in comtrol?
If you are, then perhaps you need to get to know him.
Isa.55:9
[9] For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.
Remember, I said long-term. On the whole, the larger picture, if you will...God is always in charge. What I am saying is that not everything is His Will. Please do not suggest that I don't know Him. I never suggested that of you.
Jesus cried over Jerusalem because they rejected Him.
The Lord regretted creating man before the flood of Noah because mens hearts were so evil. After the flood, His anger was calmed and He promised never to flood the earth again. (It was not God's Will for men to be so evil).
The Jewish people, thank God, remain a strong people to this day, for God has seen to their survival. It was not HIs Will, however, that they be killed by evil men during WWII.
God is in charge. That does not mean that all things that men do are His Will, and believe me, MEN decided Terri's fate.