Just make GOOD and sure that you and your husband have a good living will. I just had mine done, and now looking at it, I want to rephrase it again. And make sure people you can really TRUST are down as your potential caregivers.
I added a small addendum to my will, asking that if I'm ever in a coma that someone read to me or play my favorite Gene Kelly films, at least once a week. I know that may sound silly, but I have heard so many people who came out of comas say they were awake and aware, but couldn't communicate.
I have to leave again for a while. I spent the day in the ER with a friend (everything's OK). I took my Bible with me to read while waiting. I was only able to read Psalm 1-12 but there sure was a lot in there that pertained to Terri.
I myself am a bit afraid of a living will..If you have one they may not treat you as agressivly and purposly let you get to a stage where "nothing else we can do " stage..Tonight I trust no one but my Lord