[Sapirit]

They (men) will try to feed you a lot of bs. I was virgin and married a virgin. It was awesome, and I deserved it 100%. A man you marry should have the same principles as you; otherwise, you're in for more pain than you know. Some playboys change their ways for real (no, you don't change him, neither does your love, he changes himself if he wishes so). However, vast majority conitue after marriage with their "adventures": he is in habit of using women, and signing contract with you will not change his basic character.

Most of the girls who ARE labeled "slut" are not actually promiscuous. Most of the girls who get called "slut" in high school are either girls who are not popular or who have pissed someone off. Once you get the reputation you can't get rid of it, and you rarely get the reputation on account of anything slutty that you actually do. "Slut" is just a word people use to hurt girls they don't like because they know that once a girl is labeled "slut" men will regard her as "fair game" and other girls won't associate with her.

Women will never have a fair shake in this world until they learn to defend one another and not accept judgement on the grounds of their sexual choices... you can sleep with 100 guys, but if you carry yourself like a queen and expect no less, you will be treated like a queen-- but if you are called "slut" and you cringe because maybe once you let a guy go to third base, everyone will treat you like a whore and if you are in high school, you may very well be raped...

[cyborg]

Listen to sapirit. Men who are on the hunt for sex are FOS. They will try every trick in the book. She's also right about women and name calling.

[Campion]

Some playboys change their ways for real (no, you don't change him, neither does your love, he changes himself if he wishes so). However, vast majority conitue after marriage with their "adventures": he is in habit of using women, and signing contract with you will not change his basic character.

You were saying there was no rational reason not to sleep around?

[Rca2000]

People like You, and with your ideas, are a LOT of the reason I am still single.

DO you want to know MY definition of a "slut'? SIMPLE-- A woman who has SEX, OUTSIDE of marriage. PERIOD. NOW-- IF a woman settles down, with ONE man, and REMAINS faithful to him, and him ALONE, then, she is NOT a slut,. REGARDLESS of the past she had.

Then, you say, "many people I know, would never consider marriage , without having sex with someone first". (the old" would you buy a car, without a "test drive", first?) UNACCEPTABLE. The bible I read, did NOT state, "in the future, these commandments, will heve to be "adapted" to fit the times". Bull$hit!!! You are buying much of the feminists propaganda!! "no reason NOT to have sex, outside of marriage" BS!!

BTW-- I AGREE, that MEN should be held to the SAME standard, as women, and that there is STILL a double standard, BUT, that standard seems to be diminishing, as nowdays, even "Christinas", are falling into the "new morality", trap, and having pre-maritial sex, and living together, at will.