Well....I am not that calm. But I am working REAL hard on....accepting God's will. Not my will. But God's will. If it is His will that Terri lives, she will live. If it His will that He wants Terri to come home, then she will come home to Him.
Whatever our Father in Heaven's will is going to be, it seems to me that those of us of faith should make sure we don't cannibalize each other FIGHTING for what WE want-----when we should be fighting for what our Father in heaven wants.
Just my take on it.
Amen, my dear.