I really believe most people that are gay are BORN that way. There are many babies born with both sexes and parents have to make that choice what their kid would be...so why is so hard to understand that there is a hormonal imbalance in many people to make them gay?
Isn't this a question for science? Why hasn't science been able to discover this?
The truth is likely somewhere in the middle. I know most boys who were molested by men remain sexually confused for many years after reaching puberty. DON'T sit there and try to convince me those kids, whoo's balls hadn't even dropped, somehow just KNOW they were born gay.
Because according to Christian Scriptures homosexuality is the direct result of willful rejection of divine axioms. Short of comprehensive evidence to the contrary, people of faith see no reason not to accept the moral pronouncements made regarding homosexuals. Also, there exists enough circumstantial evidence with respect to the behaviour and tendencies of homosexuals to suspect the traditional understanding is valid.
From a spiritual standpoint, it doesn't matter if someone is born that way. Most men are born with the desire to have sex with a number of different women, but God doesn't condone that behavior either.
"I really believe most people that are gay are BORN that way."
Nobody is born with same-sex attraction disorder. In men, it is a maladapive response to a molestation or seduction in the pre-adult years.
If every male now suffering from SSAD were to be cured at this instant we would see no new cases, because there would be no one to transmit it to the younger generation.