"She can't love her parents that much or she would have stayed in the closet."
She's gay, it happens. She loves her parents, which says a lot for her considering how they treat her. She's not a shame nor an embarassment. If she finds a good woman to "bond with" monogomously, or whatever, then more power to her. There are plenty of things far worse than being gay. You can be a straight alcoholic. Or a straight wife-beater. Or a straight rapist. The prisons are full of perfectly straight ACTUAL embarassments to parents everywhere.
She's not a shame nor an embarassment. If she finds a good woman to "bond with" monogomously, or whatever, then more power to her.
Sounds to me like you condon homosexuality and the way you talk your probably one so I will pray for you and her to see the light.