Several big topics here...
1. To yourself you need NOT be an object, unless you introspect.
2. The structure of language can dictate how we perceive the world, see "pro-choice" vs. "pro-life" or Orwell's 1984 for details ("Crimethink!")
3. The structure of language may reflect pre-existing perceptions of the world, see "logical positivism", Noam Chomsky, or any college philosophy department :-(
Cheers!
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Lacanians together toward the future!