Sumpin' fishy here. I find it hard to believe that "remorseful" is in her vocabulary.
"Yo! Yo! Yo! I need me some educating on looking remorseful. Not lugubrious, yo! That be too extreme and would not be the demeanor I'm seeking. I ain't no John Kerry doppleganger! Remorseful is what I be. Word!"
People in the system get very wise to the vocabulary used in legal cases. Her lawyer could have easily told her that the judge would be looking for remorse. In fact, that she had to ask how to look remorseful could be a sign of ignorance as well as evil.