You might be right
Men and women think differently. However, some men think like women and vice versa.
Example: My daughter sends me an Easter Card. I call her on Easter (hate the postage/card/mailbox routine). My son emails me on my Birthday. I email him on his...but a few days before because I'm afraid I'll forget (Busy time of year & old age).
In the end, the goal (thought)is exactly the same but the methods are different.
If you don't want to learn how to read a map 7 USE IT, you'll just have to get there "YOUR WAY. Yes, you always get there!!