The dividing line is in The Book.
I choose to follow the example of Christ, including His examples in interaction with the "heathen".
That does not mean that I lay down my right in our Republic to strengthen (or preserve) society with His Truths. I do however accept that man would rather his neck be broken than be forced to bow.
Jesus never forced anyone to bow.
Constraints are inherent in society, but force should be used wisely or it will a. defeat your goals (be they good or bad) or b. be turn against you.