I had to laugh when the woman said that childless women are not celebrated like moms-to-be. Who in their right mind would be jealous of not having a baby shower?
The problem I've always had with baby showers and reams of congratulations is that any idiot can make a baby. The achievement lies in raising the kid into a respectable human being. I think it better to wait 16 years or whatever, see how the kid has turned out, and then hand over your congratulations and gifts (or not)! LOL