The problem I've always had with baby showers and reams of congratulations is that any idiot can make a baby. The achievement lies in raising the kid into a respectable human being. I think it better to wait 16 years or whatever, see how the kid has turned out, and then hand over your congratulations and gifts (or not)! LOL
LOL! Good points. I can't imagine this woman has been to too many showers, bridal or otherwise. They are only fun for the bride/mom-to-be (sometimes not even her) and possibly her mother and various other female relatives.
I didn't have a bridal shower by choice. I don't like them so why subject my family and friends to one? I can't imagine anything as stupid as a "You've Got No Kids!" shower.