Posted on 12/14/2004 3:09:01 AM PST by NYer
Only last night, Marcus Grodi, a former Baptist minister and convert to the Catholic Church, was discussing this with his guest on The Journey Home. He repeatedly demonstrated how often, as a minister, he had to constantly weigh his family obligations against church obligations. It was oftentimes, a heavy burden, especially with 7 children to support. Keep in mind that protestant ministers do not have to contend with the volume of masses said in the RC Church, including Holy Days of Obligation. They don't hear confessions, or lead novenas.
I too am a catholic but attend an Eastern Catholic Church. Like many of the Eastern Rites, our church allows for married clergy. However, there are restrictions. Those who wish to serve as priests outside of their homeland, are chose from the celibate clergy. My pastor has chosen celibacy for the reasons I mentioned above. His schedule is such that he would not have time to properly devote to both his parishioners and his family.
"amongst them", yes, but not limited to that one condition. Paul himself chose celibacy and encouraged it.
"NUANCED CAREFULLY"
That means that the Queer Establishment will "nuance" their interpretation and totally ignore any restrictions suggested by the Vatican.
Your understanding of the situation is straight from the Protestant playbook.
Thanks for your assistance--but no thanks.
Nope.
First off, a homosexual predator won't "solve his problem" by marrying a woman.
Secondly, you and I both know that married clerics also hop into adultery quite regularly.
It's a matter of self-control, just like you tell your children (I hope...)
You are so kind and patient to explain this AGAIN!
Uuuuhhhhnnnhhh...we used to call them "fems"---at our all-male Jebbie high school.
A fem is a fem is a fem, regardless of the tools God gave them, so to speak.
Is it true?
Or not?
DID the Church indeed inherit lands, money and goods from people who entered the priesthood?
There WAS motive.
The Church did do it.
Ir has been documented.
I can back up what i say.
The American Church, in particular a few diocese turned their backs on the church doctrine on ordaned homosexuals, and now those diocese are full of homosexuals so much so that they now control those diocese. Trading sex for favors and actively recruiting more homosexuals into them.
To this day, I still doubt highly that most lay folk of the church understand how rampant homosexuality has become in certain dioceses of the Catholic Church in america.
It needs to be stopped, and the only way it will be is if the Vatican itself kills it by purging the church of it.
Since they generally use a fragment of the bible (there are 7 books missing) and usually a bad translation (the King James might be good poetically, but a lot of meanings have been changed), I wouldn't say that.
People are looking for guidelines to follow and a community that follows the same guidelines. There are those of us out there who are Catholic who follow traditional guidelines and we don't let the modernists destroy our relationship with God and His Bride.
>>Simple Money and Land grab.<<
Wow! That Catholic Church, EVIL it is!!!
Why shouldn't the money these people had go to whatever order they went into. Who do you think fed them and kept them for years? Manna from heaven fell into the Abbies or Convents?????
Nothing is simple in God's eyes. There are Biblical reasons why Priests and Nuns do not marry, but in a world where Catholics are fair game, it MUST have to do with Greed.
Shouldn't be made bishop either.
Agreed, I didn't mean to imply they don't. I just feel it's harder to offer guidance to married couples when you don't have an understanding of the problems married couples face. It be like me trying to teach someone something that I'd not had experience in. You can possibly do it to a degree but not quite as well as if you'd had experience.
Shouldn't be made bishop either.
Or cardinal, for that matter.
"This choice is freely made by those men who feel 'called' to the priesthood."
Therein lies the problem, 'men who feel' "called", rather than men who are called.
I can point out many a pastor who's fooled around with married women.... And they are in faiths that allow their ministers and Pastors to marry.
Marriage will not end sexual perversion... it might open the career path to priesthood for folks who have never considered it before, but in terms of it ending sexual picadillos... hardly. A predatory pedophile is a predatory pedaphile, and while it may not be PC, the bulk of predatory pedophiles are ineed homosexual, at least in the studies I have seen on the subject. These sorts of people will ALWAYS be attracted to positions where they have power and/or access to youngsters (preferably both). Which is exactly why the Boy Scouts has to be ALWAYS on its guard against homosexuals trying to get into their midst and have access to the kids. It is also why the Church must have an absolutely no tolerance of homosexuality in its ranks (above and beyond the spiritual view of the practice), its simply common sense.
Predatory pedophiles are always going try to get jobs in schools, day cares, churches, summer camps, etc. A predator must have access to their prey and these positions offer this to them, not only access, but also power over their victims as well.
Marriage will not solve the predatory pedophile issue in the church. Understanding that while homosexuals are children of God, and deserve our prayers and frankly pity for their rejection of him and his teachings, that compassion and pity does not extend so far as to dillude ourselves that they are to be trusted around children, regardless of how nice they may be.
I don't think that that is necessarily true. Sometimes someone who knows nothing about either party and doesn't take sides, not having been there, can see what's happening more clearly.
Gently
Because usually we are friends.
What happens to little sibs or nephews and nieces when the priest of nun dies?
The Church has so much.
i tell you true, it hurts me to see Catholic people in South America starving when there is gold on the altar in a nice parish elsewhere.
But regardless of what decide, I DO wish you a Very Merry Christmas!
That's right. That's why they should seek out spiritual direction to help them find out if what they are 'feeling' is from God or not.
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