You're in denial. There can't possibly be something wrong with your perceptions, can there?
I think you hang out with the wrong women. Hint: stop picking up chicks in bars. Start going to church instead.
Let's test me:
I percieve that American men are generally more sensitive to women's concerns than any other group of men anywhere, anytime before. We aren't perfect, but we help more around the house, change more diapers, are more involved with our kids, are more accomodating of our wives' careers, and a slew of other measures, than our fathers were.
Is there something wrong with that perception?
Where or when has it been better?
I understand what you're saying, but, isn't it a little (I dunno) wrong, to "work the church?"