No offense but actually, it is.
No, it's not and it's a sign of how unhinged some on the pro-life side are...There was never a doubt as to the brutality and evil that it took to murder the Jews or Cambodians. They justified it, but it took a great toll on those involved.
You essentially equate women with Mengele and the KGB assassins, when they are nothing alike.
This is called lack of objectivity and will do nothing but hinder you in your cause. Slavery has always been a more acceptable parallel because there were decent people who participated in that institution, whereas gulags and extermination camps were not a matter of a "difference in opinion" or "lagging morals."
When you're given the choice between quick euthanasia and extended torture ending in death, let's see you pick the latter. No, they're not the same.