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HERE’S A TIP: NOT LEAVING ONE IS LEGAL
ABAJournal ^ | September 24, 2004 | Stephanie Francis Ward

Posted on 11/10/2004 12:29:27 PM PST by billorites

A $2 tip on a $77 restaurant bill may be cheap, but it isn’t criminal. So says a New York state district attorney, who declined to press charges against a man who refused to leave a restaurant’s required gratuity of 18 percent for large parties.

Humberto A. Taveras’ arrest on Sept. 5 came under New York’s theft of services law, which carries misdemeanor charges. With a party of eight, the Long Island man dined at Soprano’s Italian and American Grill, a Lake George, N.Y., restaurant that applied the tip policy to parties of six or more.

(Ironically, The Sopranos, HBO’s television series, had a recent episode involving a dispute over a gratuity for a large party of mobsters. That dispute ended in the macabre, with the waiter being killed in the argument.)

Ultimately, the case boiled down to language. Soprano’s restaurant described the policy on its menu as a "gratuity," which by definition means "discretion," says Kathleen B. Hogan, the district attorney of Warren County, who ultimately decided to drop charges against Taveras.

She mentions a Southern District of Indiana ruling in which a judge found that a tip or gratuity was strictly within the customer’s discretion and payment could not be forced. U.S. v. Indianapolis Athletic Club, IP90-1783C.

Had the service been written as a surcharge rather than a gratuity, Hogan probably would have prosecuted the case.

"It really did turn on the word," she says, adding that under restaurant policy, the tip should have been nearly $14. "It’s not like they didn’t leave any tip. They just left a smaller tip than you would want."

That’s for sure, say attorneys who represent the restaurant industry. On average, those interviewed for this article say they tip at least 20 percent.

"The whole reason so many restaurants do have notice is because this historically is a problem," says R. Rogge Dunn, a Dallas lawyer and former pizza restaurant assistant manager. "You get a large group that splits the tab, and some people are chintzy on the amount they’re going to leave."

Al DeNapoli, a Boston lawyer who represents the hospitality industry, says this is the first time he’s heard of someone being arrested for poor tipping.

"I’m surprised it was pushed this far, but there are people who are bad tippers all the time," he says. "Whether this is the case here, I don’t know."

Hogan says Taveras was unhappy with the service and said it did not warrant an 18 percent tip.

DeNapoli, who waited tables as a law student, says that not tipping, even when service is bad, may not be the best solution for disgruntled diners. Servers’ salaries depend on tips, he says, and they often share the money with busboys and dishwashers. Instead, DeNapoli advises you to speak with management about the situation or to "talk with your feet" and stop patronizing the restaurant.

Having someone arrested for poor tipping may also not be the best solution, even if it’s a fantasy scenario of many servers.

"You might have a decent civil suit against them, but whatever you would win in that case would be far outweighed by the adverse publicity," Dunn says. "My advice would be to look at the bottom line, and let it go."

Lake George is a resort town, and according to Hogan—herself a former waitress who always tips 20 percent—the publicity they’ve received from the incident concerns many restaurant owners there. Some of them, she says, changed their language from "mandatory gratuity" to "service charge" on large party bills.

"They want to make sure their employees are getting compensation," Hogan adds, "and make sure they’re following what obviously is the law in a federal case."


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To: jpsb

"If everyone stopped tipping the system would collapse and bartenders and waitress all over the country would be out on the street."

You couldn't simply charge $6 for the $5 beer & make a deal where they get 20% of the gross ? ( that would give them an incentive to keep up the sales, sales, sales )

( heck, they rip us off for $7.50 at the airport already )


241 posted on 11/11/2004 2:07:44 PM PST by RS (Just because they are out to get him doesn't mean he's not guilty)
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To: RS
I would love to sell beer for 5 bucks! We charge $1.50 for a bottle of bud, and the girls hope like hell that you throw the 4 bits change into the tip jar. Now if I was paying 5 bucks a beer I would damn sure want GREAT service to put a buck in the tip jar.

Damn I am starting to see your side of things, 5 dollars for a beer? Where do you live? I need to open a bar there.

242 posted on 11/11/2004 2:18:12 PM PST by jpsb (MAN)
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To: jpsb
hell 5 dollars and a pack of smokes is a night out to a lot of my customers. They can get 4 beers (milwalkies best) on that at RadioCity San Leon. Plus even thou the girls know there is no tip coming, they still get acceptable service. ,p>Sorry for carring on so, 5 bucks a beer just blows my mind.

Any thing over 2.25 is a rip off and I am outta there after one beer.

243 posted on 11/11/2004 2:26:22 PM PST by jpsb (MAN)
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To: Gerasimov

I used to be a waiter and I understand your frustration for having the tip included. Blame the jerks who stiff waiters for the tipping policy. I always leave a good tip if the server is only as much as nice and pleasant. Often the server has very little control on what goes on in the kitchen. Be nice to me and you will be tipped well.


244 posted on 11/11/2004 2:30:24 PM PST by cornfedcowboy
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To: avenir

Amen! If you don't think you need to tip then maybe you do need to stay home and serve yourself!!!!


245 posted on 11/11/2004 2:32:18 PM PST by cornfedcowboy
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To: jpsb

I'm guessing Amber gets very good tips from the male customers.


246 posted on 11/11/2004 2:34:45 PM PST by Modernman (Giving money and power to government is like giving whiskey and car keys to teenage boys. - P.J.)
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To: avenir

Don't ever go back to a restaurant where you have stiffed a waiter! If they recognize you, they will rub your tortillas on the employee bathroom floor before they serve them to you!!!!


247 posted on 11/11/2004 2:37:37 PM PST by cornfedcowboy
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To: Modernman
Yup, Amber is drop dead gorgeous. Melinda is a very pretty too and Bobbete while older is very very nice (my favorite). They all make me wish I was in my 30's again.
248 posted on 11/11/2004 2:39:38 PM PST by jpsb (MAN)
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To: jpsb

Cheapist beer around Southern CA is $3 in any place worth walking into - unless you head down to TJ.

Haven't seen $1.50 beer in a looong while around here.

( best deal in the world is in Prague, about .30 a mug for one of the best drafts made - Staropramen )


249 posted on 11/11/2004 2:48:45 PM PST by RS (Just because they are out to get him doesn't mean he's not guilty)
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To: Modernman

""As my waitress ex-girlfriend said, a good tip and a good attitude from a customer ensures no spit or other bodily fluid in that customer's food.

Think about that the next time you decide to not tip a waitress at your regular restaurant.""

And if caught said restaurant will be out of business pronto. Not only that if the person has a communicable disease they face the possibility of criminal charges.


250 posted on 11/11/2004 2:55:55 PM PST by CajunConservative
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To: billorites
That's the deal in Europe. It's a line on the bill called service and is typically 10-15%.

Yep, I vaguely remember that from a long-ago Eurail trip. My thoughts were mainly in reference to American restaurants.

What shocked me maybe most about Europe was how often I had to pay a fee to wipe my hands on some grimy towel guarded by a grumpy woman in a public restroom.

Speaking of restrooms, on a train in Italy (or was it France... I forget...) there was also that toilet fixed with a hole flap that opened to discard one's deposits onto the tracks whizzing below...

251 posted on 11/11/2004 2:57:03 PM PST by k2blader (It is neither compassionate nor conservative to support the expansion of socialism.)
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To: jpsb

Checked your site ---

BTW - 925 Bayshore might mean something to those who know, but had to do some digging to find out you are in Texas.

Don't get down that way much, mostly connecting through Houston. Nice to know there are still places you can get a cheap buzz ...


252 posted on 11/11/2004 2:59:18 PM PST by RS (Just because they are out to get him doesn't mean he's not guilty)
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To: WildTurkey
I have been a college student for a number of years (well, now grad student) and while my friend and I didn't get to go out to eat too often, and often ended up having to go to Denny's cause it was about the only place we could afford, we always made an effort to leave a large tip.

It definitely paid off in the long run, because a lot people our age would be stingy, but we were remembered by the staff at most of the places we frequented, even if we didn't frequent too often and didn't buy high dollar dinners, because we were polite to them and tipped well.

Now I used to think that the idea of a mandatory tip was horrible. But I had several occasions where I went out with other people that I didn't know really well (engineering meetings, etc) and at the end of the meal they would announce "I don't believe in tipping" or perhaps just leave a really meager tip, and the rest of us would be left hanging.

So we had a choice: 1. we could all look like cheap bastards, or 2. we could cough up the extra dough from the rest of the group.

This typically happened in large groups, and unfortunately it would often be several people who did it.

Of course I would never associate with the real cheap bastards again (fool me twice....) but it happened on many occasions.

But... if there is a mandatory tip, it allowed me to be much more forceful in getting the money out of the rest of the group. I mean, I would (well, we would really) get in their face either way, but if it was mandatory it would typically work.

So as a customer this saved me from one of two fates: putting up more of my own dough, or having my food spat in the next visit. ;-) So now I'm happy to see it.

-paridel
253 posted on 11/11/2004 3:00:34 PM PST by Paridel
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To: bullseye876

I missed your point.


254 posted on 11/11/2004 3:02:04 PM PST by TankerKC (R.I.P. Spc Trevor A. Win'E American Hero)
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To: pkp1184
JUST GIVE US SERVERS THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT SOMETIMES.

Good career choice. That explains your emotion (and lack of logic).

255 posted on 11/11/2004 3:05:10 PM PST by TankerKC (R.I.P. Spc Trevor A. Win'E American Hero)
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To: k2blader

Still had them just a couple of years ago - The Intercities I've ridden on lately have tanks ( or at least they don't have the flap that lets you see the ground anymore ) - The locals might still be the old ones...


256 posted on 11/11/2004 3:05:36 PM PST by RS (Just because they are out to get him doesn't mean he's not guilty)
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To: TankerKC
Good career choice. That explains your emotion (and lack of logic).

I am a college student, waiting tables to get through school so I can get a career. My emotion on this topic stems from the ignorance of people who have never held a job in the restaurant industry. It's easy to point fingers when you've never been in someone's shoes. Thanks, but no thanks.

257 posted on 11/11/2004 3:31:13 PM PST by pkp1184
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To: pkp1184

I have "car hopped" and waited tables. I have cooked and washed dishes. I moved on. Hopefully you will.

258 posted on 11/11/2004 3:50:11 PM PST by TankerKC (R.I.P. Spc Trevor A. Win'E American Hero)
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To: TankerKC

I'm 20, I'll get a career when I'm done with college. When I graduate, I'll move on. In the meantime, don't patronize me and I hope I never have to wait on you.


259 posted on 11/11/2004 3:56:11 PM PST by pkp1184
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To: RS

San Leon is kinda stuck in time, but Houston is quickly growing towards us. The buck-fifty beer won't last much longer . Just about ever other place around went to 1.75 or 2.00. I'd hold at 1.50 for a while longer and then go to 2.00 so you better hurry up. I hate 1.75, cuts the girls tips from 50 cents to 25 cents.


260 posted on 11/11/2004 4:06:57 PM PST by jpsb (MAN)
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