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To: Bella_Bru
Dear Bella_Bru --

When you send FReepmail to someone, please make sure you put the correct receiver's name in the To: line.

I really have no idea why you included me in your post (#181).

What was it that I said that made you feel that I am some sort of "brainiac."

And are you in the habit of telling people with whom you disagree to "shut their pieholes"?

I hope you will excuse me for saying this, but it seems to me tha tyou are reacting most angrily to something that is not being said in order to give you offense.

When one of my Jewish friends wishes me a Happy Passover or a Happy Hannukah, I (and I am speaking here only for myself) truly do not feel any sort of need to respond with anything that sounds defensive or with anything that could be perceived as suggesting that the deeply held religious beliefs of my Jewish friends are trivial or have no meaning.

I don't do that because I don't like offending people of other faiths simply because they are of other faiths.

And why would I say, in response to another person wish for my happines on a particular day or during a particular few days of the year with something like, "Thanks, but I don't believe in Passover" Or "Thanks, but Hannukah has no meaning for me."

Both of those comments, it seems to me, are very much "in your face" and truly ungracious responses to a mere wish from another person for my happines.

It is just inconceivable to me, what with all the hatred and evil in this world, that I would ever wish to respoond to another person -- one who has wished me happiness on a day with anything other than a sincere "thank you."

It seems to me that if I were to then extend nmy response to say something dismissive like, "I don't celebrate Hannuikah. Have a good one.", that I might want to take some time to see why it is that I choose to repond to gracious good wishes for my happines with words that telgraph resentment that another person has wished me happiness.

By the way, Happy November 12th.

212 posted on 11/12/2004 10:03:58 AM PST by chs68
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To: chs68
And are you in the habit of telling people with whom you disagree to "shut their pieholes"?

I am in the habit of telling people that when they have no idea what they are talking about. As in, "she doesn't celebrate Christmas? I can't believe that.".

213 posted on 11/12/2004 10:09:24 AM PST by Bella_Bru (Proud member of La Kosher Nostra and the IZC)
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