Have you had a sex change or something?
*Laughs* I mean that I've put the emphasis on the romance over the sexual aspect. I don't want any sex now; I want what sex I do have to be an outpouring of love for my wife (if I do get married). And no, no sex change operation. I was born physically male and I'm planning on staying that way.
So. Why were you gay in the first instance?
Why were you attracted to men initially?
Good for you!
Props to you, dear, for having the courage to question "conventional" wisdom and "conventional" answers for hard issues.
Asexual occurs for a lot of us after a bad relationship/s. For three years, I honestly didn't want to be involved with anyone. But thank God, I found someone who made me feel differently about it! And you will, too. When the time is right, you will be blessed...