I know what you mean.
Unfortunately there are some people that do not understand the difference between suburban and non-suburban residential areas (aka rural). We had the misfortune of discovering that the hard way last year when the appraiser used by the bank to approve our mortgage used suburban comparisons rather than rural. what an absolute nightmare that was.
But I will take rural living over urban or suburban any day!!!!
I wouldn't mind rural, either; however, the logistics of rural when you've got active kids are too car-intensive.