Can you share some of the factors that worked in your favor, and some factors that worked against your ex?
Nothing too specific - just an outline to get a sense whether your case has wider application or is really only a special situation.
My X had been manipulating my children. She had wanted them to lie about me and throw fits in public when with me.
She had denied me visitation even though the court ordered it. She moved in a male she met on the internet.
I documented it all and kept a journal.
I did every thing the court had asked me and she did not.
"Congratulations!
Can you share some of the factors that worked in your favor, and some factors that worked against your ex?"
A picture of her standing over a bloody corpse with an axe in her hand?
That's what it would take in Jersey anyway.