"Congratulations!
Can you share some of the factors that worked in your favor, and some factors that worked against your ex?"
A picture of her standing over a bloody corpse with an axe in her hand?
That's what it would take in Jersey anyway.
Ahhh, not so, Dad. My ex husband just won primary custody of his twin girls (not my kids - another wife). It cost him $80,000, but he won custody in New Jersey.