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Get Pregnant, Or Get Sent To Iraq
St. Petersburg Times ^ | September 19, 2004 | Leonora LaPeter

Posted on 09/22/2004 2:04:26 AM PDT by Former Military Chick

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As a former military chick, I saw several women who either got pregnant to get out of the service or to remain stateside during a conflict.

I am also aware that many women return from Iraq, short of her rotation because she has a bun in the oven.

Now then, why is this fair? It is these types of articles that really frustrate me.

1 posted on 09/22/2004 2:04:27 AM PDT by Former Military Chick
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To: Former Military Chick
She wanted to name the baby Africa. Michael didn't. They compromised on Asia.

Just from that line, I draw the following summary:

Liberal chick. Joined the military to get a free ride for college. Learned that, gee whiz, militaries go overseas to fight. Now wants out.

Perhaps I'm being harsh, but this dame isn't fit to wear that uniform. Give her a dishonorable discharge and get her the hell out of the service before she f---s it up even more.

2 posted on 09/22/2004 2:07:41 AM PDT by Prime Choice (The Religion of Peace ISN'T.)
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why would you join the military knowing that the military fights in war....free ride? im sorry but that makes me angry...dont join if you dont want to serve.


3 posted on 09/22/2004 2:11:23 AM PDT by donnab
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To: Former Military Chick
The military was a good experience for me. Of course, when I was in, I wanted out most of the time. It was so inconvenient. Getting up at 5AM, drill, inspections, field days, open squad-bays, the whole nine yards. It wasn't an easy hitch. But I came out of it four years later a mature and responsible adult. Without the military, I highly doubt I would have attained the career success I have today on account of the discipline and work ethic instilled in me.

This woman should suck it up and fulfill the committment she made when she signed the papers and took that oath. She might well profit by it later and be glad she stuck it out.

Getting pregnant should not get one out of their military committments. There are many young fathers serving our military as well and they are making the sacrifices. Women wanted equal rights. Well they have equal rights and with that equal status comes responsibility.

5 posted on 09/22/2004 2:23:28 AM PDT by SamAdams76 (Hurricane Season is Over)
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So, what should happen to women in the military who become pregnant?

I'm inclined to agree that it isn't necessarily fair to the women who don't become pregnant or to the men, or to the units who lose needed manpower when a woman is rotated (or TAD) to pregnancy duty. But what is the solution?

My wife is active duty Navy and is currently on sea duty assigned to a ship (I'm a former sailor and current Reservist in a billet unlikely to ever be mobilized). We're a married couple, financially we are doing pretty well, and we would like to have children. Should we wait just because she's in the military? How is that fair? Men in the military don't have to wait to start a family.

I'm not trying to disagree with you or start anything, but I would really like to hear some opinions about this, and as a (former) military chick I'm sure you have more insight than most.

6 posted on 09/22/2004 2:25:12 AM PDT by flada (No Bounce No Play (from Dreamcatcher)... got that Senator Kerry?)
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"Oh, no," she said, the color draining from her face.

"Oh, yes," she said when she received her first retirement check from the military which augmented her income she earned from "military paid" college in years past.

Self centered, uncaring, inconsiderate, undeserving, wench! (IMO)

7 posted on 09/22/2004 2:26:11 AM PDT by EGPWS
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Things are worse than this. I was discussing this very subject with a neighbor. He said that in fire departments now, new members have to sign a statement acknowledging that they know being a fireman can be dangerous and that they could get killed. Just what are schools teaching these days?
8 posted on 09/22/2004 2:27:39 AM PDT by Hillarys Gate Cult ("I hate going to places like Austin and Dubuque to raise large sums of money. But I have to," Kerry)
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To: Former Military Chick

Lesson: don't join the military if you're not willing to serve...


9 posted on 09/22/2004 2:27:51 AM PDT by sargon (How could anyone vote for the socialist, weak-on-defense fraud named John Kerry?)
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Cristie smoked and didn't exercise much before she reported for boot camp at Fort Leonard Wood in Missouri. Push-ups, sit-ups, running - she always lagged behind.

"I'm a really sensitive person, and they're all yelling at me, and I'd just go back and cry," she remembered. "I was trying to fail so they'd send me home."

This sounds like the last person we'd want to send into a war zone. It concerns me greatly that our military is now having to call up people like this, who signed up only after a Private Benjamin recruiting pitch when they really weren't cut out for military service in the first place.

10 posted on 09/22/2004 2:28:03 AM PDT by billclintonwillrotinhell
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Wow, hate to read something you wrote when you were really angry.

top o' the morning!


11 posted on 09/22/2004 2:32:24 AM PDT by Former Military Chick (Ticked OFF in the heartland.)
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To: sargon

Well said!


13 posted on 09/22/2004 2:33:50 AM PDT by Jet Jaguar (Who would the terrorists vote for?)
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To: flada
22 years USMC, 1970 - 1992. Could not deploy with women in our aviation maintenence unit in Fleet Marine Force due to this reason. Nothing personally against women in service to our country, but it cripples units like mine when deployed and doesn't create atmosphere of 'esprit de corps'.

Weapons are to be used against the enemy, not a preganancy detector.

14 posted on 09/22/2004 2:38:30 AM PDT by Chieftain (Support the Swift Boat Veterans for Truth and expose Hanoi John's FRAUD!)
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top o' the morning!

Bottom of the day before for me. I haven't the time to get someone pregnant for work keeps me too busy....

Believe me though, I DO appreciate my earned stash and my retirement that I have EARNED, without complaint.

Things are looking up.

The only time I had an "oh, no" moment was when there was a death in the family.

Not when I willingly screwed up.

15 posted on 09/22/2004 2:40:41 AM PDT by EGPWS
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I forgot to add that fire departments do indeed get applicants that don't know about the dangers of firefighting. Incredible.


16 posted on 09/22/2004 2:41:41 AM PDT by Hillarys Gate Cult ("I hate going to places like Austin and Dubuque to raise large sums of money. But I have to," Kerry)
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Then is the only solution to return to a policy of no women in combat roles, period? When I was active, there were no women on my warship (USS Dwight D. Eisenhower), and we never had problems with combat readiness.


17 posted on 09/22/2004 2:43:16 AM PDT by flada (No Bounce No Play (from Dreamcatcher)... got that Senator Kerry?)
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What do Americans work so hard for, if not to keep our women out of a war zone ?

Sometimes there are permissible reasons to change one's mind. This is one of them.


BUMP

19 posted on 09/22/2004 2:51:21 AM PDT by tm22721 (In fac they)
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The assistant came back. "I checked the test again," she said, her face dissolving into a smile, "and you're pregnant. Congratulations."

You mean the Planned Parenthood assistant didn't counsel her about her "options". Anyway, there are so many points on what is wrong with this country in this one article, I wouldn't know where to begin at this late hour.

20 posted on 09/22/2004 2:52:09 AM PDT by beaversmom (Michael Medved has the Greatest radio show on GOD's Green Earth)
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