No war is over until enough people have died. We can either get them all out up front and minimize losses on our side, or we can do this the slow way and give up a lot of our kids lives along the way. Which is more humane?
"No war is over until enough people have died."
I don't believe you are advocating killing for the sake of killing. So I'll assume that any collateral deaths caused by using the nuclear option are deaths you would prefer to avoid. If that is the case, and I admit I'm making an assumption from your post, if there are weapons that would achieve the same destruction on our enemy without the collateral damage, would you prefer to use those weapons first?