so you're psychic huh? What are the lotto numbers for tonight? So many women marry men not knowing they are gay. You're asssumption that this woman willingly entered the marriage knowing is cruel unless you have firsthand knowledge.
At least twenty people on this forum alone knew he was gay and knew about the Israeli boyfriend whom he was employing. We've been posting about it for years.
I know dozens of people who knew about it from all sorts of varied sources (mine came from a big Republican donor, who said it was openly discussed among many in the party for years, and I also knew about it from a minor player in his campaign organization, where it was known by all. And a Port Authority police sargeant told me years ago that it was common knowledge amongst all cops in the state.)
There were newspaper articles that hinted, not too subtly about it. Paul Mulshine of the Star Ledger wrote yesterday that all the journalists knew. I saw a former state senator on TV yesterday who apologized for knowing about the Cipel situation for years and not doing anything about it. He confirmed that all the other state politicians knew but nobody wanted to be labeled a "homophobe".
McGreevey bought his boyfriend a town house a few doors away from his own house. They vactioned together all the time. EVERYBODY who knew them knew they were lovers, but by no means exclusive, at least from McGreevey's perspective. He had many others.
His first wife is in hiding in Canada with his daughter and has been for years.
The state troopers codename for him was “Slamhole,” for goddsakes!
I don't know why you imagine that his wife is so completely and utterly stupid. With all due respect, your "psychic conclusion" is far less likely than my own. And it insults the woman's intelligence.