When the discord gets to a certain level,
the only redemptive thing is to take it private and keep it there--whether the other side does, or not.
It appears to me that the contentions on both sides are quite clear enough.
It's highly unlikely either of you will convince the other in the short term.
Behaving in the honorable, TM goaled manner and directions is probably one thing you can do that may bear more attractive fruit than tit for tat posts publically.
My sense is that enough of the thread have expressed discomfort with the level of discord and tension--it's really feeling like the best interest of TM is to take it private and keep it there. If you feel otherwise at a future point, run it past JustPiper if you want to bring it public again.
Blessings,
Thank U Q ;)