PS: If you ever get him to agree to wait for you at the bench, give me the date and time of when he is supposed to be there as far as in advance as possible. I may have some people who are willing to go to the coffee shop and take backup photos of the guy in case the webcam isnt good enough.
He has asked me for my phone number...I used the deaf excuse....he asked for my fax number so I sent him one that comes to my email. I really don't think this is the same guy....his attitude is much better now.