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Analysis Of Roman Epitaphs Alters Concept Of 'Family'
University Of Calgary ^ | 2-11-2004 | Dr Hanne Sigismund

Posted on 02/29/2004 4:36:28 PM PST by blam

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To: longtermmemmory
How many of us actuall remember living in a home with three blood generations?

How about four?

When all my uncles were coming home from WWII, we went through a spell of about 5/6 years where my great-grandfather, grandfather, parents, sister, three uncles (two unmarried, one married with a little girl) and an unmarried aunt all lived in the old family homestead.

They were the best years of my childhood.

81 posted on 03/01/2004 6:03:19 AM PST by metesky ("Brethren, leave us go amongst them." Rev. Capt. Samuel Johnston Clayton - Ward Bond- The Searchers)
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To: LTCJ
Actually, the similarity to middle and planter class antebellum Southern families is striking.

This is one of the things that is perenially misunderstood about both Southern and Roman families! You didn't have to be wealthy (vide Cicero, thanks Burkeman) to have extended family in the house. For one thing, there were no "labor saving devices" and even poor households had a servant or two (just look at Victorian England. Even the very poor family, living on a pension, that took Kipling in as a child boarder had a maid.) For another, the pater familias (as part of his authority) was expected to provide for all the poor relations (you can see the same thing in Victorian England with the maiden aunts and the "gentlewomen in distressed circumstances".)

Sometimes we forget how our technology has changed civilization in very basic ways. As C.S. Lewis said in The Discarded Image (about this very issue - the difference between the medieval worldview and our own), it's the assumptions that everyone makes that tend to be overlooked when reading about another era.

82 posted on 03/01/2004 6:04:35 AM PST by AnAmericanMother (. . . sed, ut scis, quis homines huiusmodi intellegere potest?. . .)
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To: Modernman
Rome was not really a "police state." Certainly, it wasn't a representative democracy. However, the government did not really intrude into the daily lives of citizens to a great degree, probably less than in America today. Furthermore, the views of the common man were important to the authorities, especally in Rome itself, where fear of the Mob tempered the decisions of the Emperor himself.

Of course it was a police state - rebellion and anti-Roman sentiment was "put down" very ruthlessly and efficiently (How would you expect a military state to be?). It wasn't worth it to fight against the powers that be. The "mob" was given food and entertainment - panem et circences - why would anyone rebel when pleasures were everywhere and rebellion only ended badly. Emperors had a vested interesting in keeping the people "entertained" outside of this, the ruling class didn't care about the "common man".

Again, this view of the ruling classes in Rome is based on the decadent excess of a very few. Scandalous behavior by a few at the top of a society is not an accurate gauge of the morals of a society. If you only judged the morality of American society by looking at rich NY socialites, corrupt DC politicians and libertine Hollywood celebrities, you'd conclude that America was rapidly sliding into moral collapse, too.

Once again - the decadence of those in power is the ONLY important factor. It doesn't matter how "moral" I am in my beliefs, it has no bearing on the powers that be because they can tell me to take a flying leap. America is sliding into moral collapse, and redefining marrige will be another nail in the coffin.

83 posted on 03/01/2004 6:08:11 AM PST by realpatriot71 ("But God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise . . ." (I Cor. 1:27))
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To: Modernman
That didn't happen in the Roman Empire until at least two centuries after Jesus' death.

Hmmm?! Christ was IMMEDIATELY relevant to the Roman Empire - He claimed to be a King. In fact, all religions were tolerated by the empire except Christianity because Christians would not ascribed deified status to the Emperor. Paul and Peter were both killed by Rome specifically because they were Christian - Nero liked to set Christians on fire and eat by the light of the flames. Christianity was always important to Rome, and it evetually even took over the empire.

84 posted on 03/01/2004 6:13:57 AM PST by realpatriot71 ("But God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise . . ." (I Cor. 1:27))
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To: SolutionsOnly
the agenda being to eliminate all Christian references from our daily lives.

Could you please explain how replacing AD (Anno Domini) with CE (Christian Era) is part of the attempt to eliminate all Christian references from our daily lives?

85 posted on 03/01/2004 6:19:18 AM PST by Jeff Gordon (LWS - Legislating While Stupid. Someone should make this illegal.)
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To: realpatriot71
Christ was IMMEDIATELY relevant to the Roman Empire - He claimed to be a King.

His religious views were not important to Rome from the outset. He was encouraging sedition within the Empire, but that is relevant independent of his religious views.

Christianity was always important to Rome, and it evetually even took over the empire

In its early years, Christianity was nothing more than a minor sect of Judaism, which was a minor sect within the Empire. Mithraism, for example, was a much more important religion (Christianity got many of its ideas from Mithraism- a crucified and resurrected deity, borne of a virgin) during the time period.

No one can deny that Christianity became the dominant religion in the Empire and used that dominance to repress and snuff out all other religions. However, to say that Jesus was important to the Roman Empire at the time of his death is not true. To the Romans, he was nothing more than a provincial hick preacher who got mixed up in colonial politics and ended up paying the price.

86 posted on 03/01/2004 6:23:16 AM PST by Modernman ("The strong do what they can, the weak suffer what they must." - Thucydides)
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To: AnAmericanMother
but a casual reading of, say, Suetonius

LOL

Yep, I was just casually reading Suetonius the other night...

87 posted on 03/01/2004 6:25:25 AM PST by HIDEK6
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To: HIDEK6
Not exactly bedtime reading . . . perhaps I should have said "cursory" or "quick" . . .

Suetonius is the "Page Six" of Imperial Rome. He is very entertaining if you like your scandal highly scandalous.

88 posted on 03/01/2004 6:30:52 AM PST by AnAmericanMother (. . . sed, ut scis, quis homines huiusmodi intellegere potest?. . .)
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To: blam; Clemenza; PARodrig; nutmeg; firebrand; rmlew
Interesting ping



89 posted on 03/01/2004 6:38:43 AM PST by Cacique
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To: Modernman
His religious views were not important to Rome from the outset. He was encouraging sedition within the Empire, but that is relevant independent of his religious views.

I never mentioned Jesus Christ's religious veiws - He was immediately important because he claimed to be king, and His followers had the annoying habit of not following the rules of Rome. The Christian sect was thus important because Christianity did not aknowledge the ultimate authority of Rome, but rather the ultimate authority of God's kingdom. This kind of "free-thinking" was a threat to the empire, especially in light of how fast the Faith spread throughout the empire.

FYI - mithraism, while being a rather ancient Assyrian mystery cult, borrowed the "virgin birth and crucifixtion" from the story of Christ, and this particular cult did not become popular in the empire until after the death of Christ. It was contemporary with Christianity - both were "new religions" to the empire at the same time, so to say one way more important and another more obscure just doesn't stand up to the historical facts.

90 posted on 03/01/2004 6:57:56 AM PST by realpatriot71 ("But God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise . . ." (I Cor. 1:27))
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To: blam
This written as though it is some kind of revelation, it is not. Wealthy families seldom raised their own kids and poor ones often sent their kids to work as indentured servants or apprentices to learn a trade.

Maybe if the Romans and other ancient cultures had evolved to the point of strong family bonds, they would still be around today. The strong family is the reason that the Jews have survived, even without a homeland.
91 posted on 03/01/2004 7:31:50 AM PST by Eva
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To: Jeff Gordon
I responding to a reply stating it was 'Common Era' - not 'Christian' Era. If it is indeed 'Christian' Era, I stand corrected.
92 posted on 03/01/2004 7:58:13 AM PST by SolutionsOnly
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To: Burkeman1
It should also be noted that getting one's picture of the early emperors from Suetonius is rather like getting one's picture of George Bush from Joe Conason (or, to be fair, like getting one's picture of Bill Clinton from Gary Aldrich).
93 posted on 03/01/2004 8:14:24 AM PST by steve-b
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To: Siamese Princess
Didn't Nero "marry" one his boytoys -- I can't remember the if this is true or the details.

That's one of Suetonius's stories (he also reports a joke making the rounds that the world would have been better off had Nero's father followed that course).

94 posted on 03/01/2004 8:19:51 AM PST by steve-b
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To: Celtjew Libertarian
How many of us actuall remember living in a home with three blood generations?

Do all of these kids today being raised by their grandparent's count?
95 posted on 03/01/2004 9:06:39 AM PST by Plumrodimus
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To: blam
What a lame attack on the family unit, even during slavery in the USofA slaves took the last name of their masters, were buried in the family cemetary with the rest of the family and more often than not were considered family.
96 posted on 03/01/2004 9:10:10 AM PST by MissAmericanPie
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To: SolutionsOnly
What does the CE stand for?

Carolyn

97 posted on 03/01/2004 9:51:19 AM PST by CDHart
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To: Modernman
For the average man on the street, life consisted of hard work and a fairly boring family life.

If Roman family life was anything like modern Italian family life, it was anything but boring...
98 posted on 03/01/2004 10:30:48 AM PST by Antoninus (Federal Marriage Amendment NOW!)
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To: CDHart
I've received two definitions: 'Common Era' and 'Christian Era'.

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99 posted on 03/01/2004 10:33:07 AM PST by SolutionsOnly
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To: Modernman
If you only judged the morality of American society by looking at rich NY socialites, corrupt DC politicians and libertine Hollywood celebrities, you'd conclude that America was rapidly sliding into moral collapse, too.

Oh, we're not? That's news to me.

And, if anything, the two main causes of Roman decline were Christianity and lead pipes.

Ah, the trendy interpretation among the anti-christian set. Read your history. If anything, Christianity gave the already tottering Empire of the third century another two hundred years or so in the West and over 1,000 more in the East.
100 posted on 03/01/2004 10:38:21 AM PST by Antoninus (Federal Marriage Amendment NOW!)
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