[Hodar]

Last I looked it took two to make a baby.

Intellectual honesty here, please. We both know that women have lied and deceived men to get pregnant for purely selfish reasons. A woman can intentionally flush her pills in the toilet, yet deceive her husband into believing that she is taking them. How many women do you know who claim to have gotten pregnant while on the pill? Funny, isn't it that the pill worked for years and years without a problem. But suddenly she wants a baby, and the husband says "we need to wait a year" and whammo ... the pill 'suddenly' quit working.

Also, the way the present laws stand, a wife man get pregnant by any male, and legally the husband is obligated to pay child support for the child. Hardly fair by any stretch of the imagaination. But, after all the though process is 'Whatever is best for the child'.

I wonder what anguish that would arise if wives found themselves getting childsupport demands made against them if their husband went around impregnating their mistresses. Naturally, the childsupport payments would stick to the wife after the divorce. Fair is fair, wouldn't you say?

[CajunConservative]

You can't be somewhat responsible and wear a condom? What happens if your wife can't take the pill for medical reasons? Oh and if you are so suspicious as to paternity then have a paternity test taken, especially if you have been faithfully wearing a condom during all sexual activities. However if there is absolutely no trust in a relationship there's really no point in getting married.

[Texan5]

Horrible law! That law was changed here some years ago-if he asks for a paternity test, she has to do it. And if it isn't his kid, he does NOT have to pay, (nor should he!)