To: billbears
I wonder how much the big cash payout we gave those widows is helping these guys decide to ditch their families and go join new ones.
5 posted on
12/01/2003 8:41:01 AM PST by
krb
(the statement on the other side of this tagline is false)
To: krb
The Army has Casualty Assistance Officers. Their job is to step in after the Casualty Notification Officer has done his job. The CAO will theoretically hold the widow's hand and guide her through the mountains paperwork and policy. The Army is well aware that two dynamics are present and could lead to an inappropriate evolution of the relationship. The bereaved may sub-consciously seek a substitute/replacement for the husband. The CAO's job has him filling almost all of the functions one would expect from the now dead husband. his causes the bereaved to attach emotionally to the CAO.
The second dynamic is one felt by the CAO. He may well confuse sympathy for the "damsel in distress" for some deeper emotion. We men have this ancient, primeval need to protect the weak. Throw in youth and attractiveness on the bereaved's part and the cocktail is ready to be mixed.
Knowing this the Army's CAO guidebook strongly cautions the CAO to know where the line is and when he's getting close.
21 posted on
12/01/2003 8:56:24 AM PST by
wtc911
FreeRepublic.com is powered by software copyright 2000-2008 John Robinson