Besides, it isn't said that the respect and love are in addition to obedience; they're one in the same.
Additionally, on what grounds do you, the admitted relativist, have to place an objective negative value on egotism anyway?
Ah, don't be so harsh. Think of him like the moon. It's smiling face sets the terms if you care to land on it.
Nature and ego are identities; self-possession is redundancy; a cosmological view must recognize a measure of sovereignty in a plural world.