This girl was 19 years old and headed off to war in a foreign land. If everybody held my behavior as a 19 year-old college student against me I wouldn't have much to say for myself. The fact that you are so judgemental suggests to me that you were a model of wholesomeness.
Add that to her sudden decision that she will indeed meet with the Iraqi lawyer. Grannie says she didn't want to meet with him earlier because she was afraid it would bring back bad memories...........GIVE ME A BREAK.....it's the bad publicity that is causing her turnaround on the Iraqi.